Blogging is similar to life! Be careful how you choose to live! Part 1/2

I keep reading lot of posts and comments from bloggers desperate to know how they make their blog better, how they impress people, get followers, readers, and interactions mostly!
Why people are not visiting their blogs, speaking to them, appreciating their work…etc…
They are just desperate even though information is everywhere and accessible to everybody and more importantly, even though Blogging is similar to life!

How’s that?
It’s so simple, you just need to read till the end which most of you won’t!
Oh well hard luck to you! 🙂

In real life, if you’re speaking to someone, you expect an answer right? So imagine if this person totally ignores you, what would be your reaction? Not cool right?

Sometimes if you were ignored, probably you should be aware of the quality of your words and attitude, people can sense the negative aura, the positive aura, they can see the sparkles or the gloom.
If they ignore you, probably you should re-consider your speech. Being cynic doesn’t really help!

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Same when your content is not interesting at all, it’s not relevant, not useful, not positive, not entertaining, not magical, not romantic, not loving, not artistic, not touching, not real, not many other things….
whatever people search, they are not finding! The sparkle is missing so find it!

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Blogging is so similar to life….

When someone speaks to you and you ignore them what that makes you? Imagine you were surrounded by people, you’re in a public place, with friends and acquaintances, you’re making yourself available, but you suddenly decide that you want to ignore people:

X: Hey, what’s up? Enjoying? 
You: Eternal silence  

It’s the same when you write 2 pages and publish them and ask your followers to read and comment and the moment someone does, you just ignore them totally, see? It’s just like life! And you misunderstood life big time!

When someone speaks to you and you nod like stupid, can you imagine?

X: Good morning, how are you today? 
You: nodding 
Unless the cat got your tongue, can you imagine how stupid you are? 

Oh this is the same when someone trying to discuss what you wrote with a decent comment and you just say:
thank you, or you just like the comment without even answering!
What about all the sentences that this blogger wrote to discuss your ideas? If you don’t want discussion then why you’re writing an essay and asking people for their opinions?

Blogging is so similar to life….

Same when you start a conversation and you don’t finish it before it was really finished.

X: You know it’s cold today? I’m very sick!
You: Oh really I’m sorry to hear that! Hope you will get well soon 
X: Thank you so much! I have this medicine “name” should I take it? 
You: Eternal silence! (the number you are calling is not available!)  
X died from the lack of information (a joke here 😀 ) 

Oh yes this was an example for you! If you wouldn’t do that in real life for your family or friends, why do it here?

Blogging is so similar to life….

When you walk around not seeing anyone, people are invisible to you; it’s only about you, your majesty! And you expect people to approach you and have a conversation with you…They won’t! People need assurance, need to feel they are accepted, respected, need to see a smile, a friendly face, need to feel that it’s mutual, otherwise no one will approach you you’re an obnoxious!

Same when you write and write and write and never read what others write, you sit there waiting for people to read while you’re not willing to pay them a visit and read what they have to say. And when they leave, you pop out every now and then to have their attention. I hate to tell you this but they already left dude!

Blogging is so similar to life….

When you’re desperate to have people’s attention, you want them in your life desperately! And instead to just approach them and get to know them and speak to them, you just pop out everywhere in front of them acting like a total weirdo until you freak them out and they report you or feel anxious and angry because of you!

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Same when you are a comments stalker! You pop out and like the people comments made on other posts or on their posts and these comments are not addressed to you at all! Instead of just read one of the hundreds posts this user have, and comment decently and express your admiration and give them a good reason to visit your blog not to block your blog!

Blogging is so similar to life….

When you make everything to have someone’s attention, you care, you express, you are so kind and gentle…etc…and when this someone gives you their attention, you become suddenly a weirdo and act like a total ass-whole, a total freak, insecurities are in dozens and your actions become vague and unpredictable.

Same when you invade someone’s blog with comments and compliments and nominations and flattery and then you decide to just ignore this blogger completely for no particular reason except you just decided to be a fucking weirdo. The result? You lost lot of points my dear!

Blogging is so similar to life….

I wasn’t planning to make 2 posts but I just couldn’t stop 🙂 Stay tuned for part 2! It will follow shortly.

Remember you don’t need to fit all the above or upcoming criteria, it can be only one of them.

Your thoughts and opinions are always welcome! Thank you so much for reading ❤

Huguette Antoun – May 29th 2019