There are plenty of more subjects I want to share with you through comments I made on other blogs, I spend more time reading than writing and these comments are the result of all these readings.
They are not less valuable than any other post, they are coming from the heart and expressed genuinely.
On suicide and mental illness:
When someone wants to take their life, they will search for any tool to do it so as you have mentioned, guns are not the reason, and they are just another tool…
People take their life because it’s easier to die than to live, especially to live happy and true to their true-selves especially when everything in society wants us to be fake, judge us…and sometimes when there’s a big loss or big disappointment, we think that this is the end so we decide to end this pain..
I believe that it should be a 911 service for mental illnesses, for suffering (since you’re speaking about America, it can be any number for other countries 🙂 maybe there is, I don’t know…But what I want to say that mental illness should really be as important as physical injuries and more! When someone is physically injured, people rush to seek help and treat the injuries, but when someone is mentally ill, suffering and want to just die, people only talk
I mean they should be an emergency call for action or whatsoever for these cases as well! I mean why not? Which is more important? Healthy body or healthy soul? Both but the second is essential!
Because when someone reaches a dark point it’s useless to speak logic to them…they won’t listen, they need professional help; they need a very intensive care and much of love!
On Wearing masks:
I believe that we all wear masks to cope with our daily difficulties and judgmental society as well! But as comfortable as it seems, well eventually it makes us lose our identity, our true-self.
This is why we need to fight on daily basis to be whom we really are and embrace it!
Only by doing so, we can be free, otherwise will attract wrong people, will have fake life and fake relationships…
It’s not easy to apply but it’s the only way!
On unrequited love (Why we insist to love the people that don’t love us back?):
This question is “the question” that everybody asks on daily basis. Psychology has an explanation that we love what we think we deserve, we think we’re not worthy to love so we love people that will never love us back, or we we’re trying to erase or change our past…And maybe they’re right, sometimes we don’t know our problem so this why we can’t find the right cure!
I think when we insist to be with someone that doesn’t love us back, or keep trying and trying it’s because we’re addicted to the thoughts of what could have been happen, why not? What’s wrong with me…all these things…
We create a certain image to this person, this image is not credible because it’s either we didn’t get to know this person very well or because we did, but this person doesn’t love us so all our romantic thoughts are imaginary!
The way I see it is simple, first we try because we don’t know the result, this person might be actually interested or we receive some signs so we follow them because we always hear: you should make a step, you should be open, you should not be arrogant and always wait…So we just open our doors…if it turned out to be mutual, that’s great but if not and the signs were misunderstood, we just retreat despite all what we’re feeling inside…I wrote something in my blog “You must realize that some people are in this world only to help you discover at some point that you are still able to dream or feel not more…they will not be a part of your life, maybe they only exist in your imagination…And that’s OK”
We retreat with some gain, maybe this person was a great listener, very positive, very open…we learned something but this person is not ours…”That’s it”
Yes, we don’t get to choose whom we love, I believe extremely in this but we can choose to retreat when it’s not mutual.
On Right and wrong:
Some people are so proud, they just need proof of others point of view otherwise, it’s wrong!
We were taught most of the times that if we’re not right, then we’re wrong! Even though it’s just a perspective, right and wrong doesn’t exist most of the times…
So the more we know, the more we’re open to others, the more we discover how silly we were when we were fighting to be right or to have the last word…
When we thought we know it all!
Thank you for reading! Please share your thoughts on the above discussed points. 🙂
Huguette Antoun – March 28th 2019