Since I decided to really blog and got the meaning of the real blogging not just publishing your writings, I faced many practices and habits that are really annoying and then after reading many articles and big amount of advice about blogging, I also discovered that some of these practices are not recommended at all! Of course I wrote about interaction an entire post, about the disrespect and not replying to the bloggers.
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Now I’ll mention few habits that are really bothering me and some points will be a “déjà vu”! But what do we say about repeating? There’s an Arabic proverb that is many consider offending but it’s very true “El Tekrar Bi3allem el 7mar” something like repetition teaches the brainless. No offense guys, it’s the proverb 😊. Other habits will not be mentioned among the bad habits in the various articles because they’re much more than that! They’re spamming not blogging.
And the annoying winners are:
The blogger that comments constantly and regularly on the other bloggers’ comments on your blog (damn what a sentence 😁 ) even after you asked them nicely to stop because the WP will send their comments to SPAM.
They are acting as if they are the admin and answering people on your behalf! I believe that all people here are clever enough to understand and listen otherwise they won’t be in this community, it’s not a school or kindergarten, we’re all grownups and dear bloggers, you will be blocked for that!
Again the number of followers is the least of my concerns even if I appreciate each and every one of you, I appreciate you as readers and bloggers not as followers!
The blogger that is so offended by your point of view so they just like your comment, as if “I didn’t like what you said!” Okay noted, didn’t like your attitude either.
The blogger that pop up every now and then to like your posts but they think you’re not worth to be followed, even though it’s readers what I care about not followers as I mentioned, but you need to follow the blog so you can read right? Why bother to search for me each time? Good stalking skills? Bravo Chapeau! 👍👍
The bloggers that don’t accept other’s point of views and opinions even after they ask for it. Or they don’t bother to say a simple thank you after you give your answer.
The blogger that like your posts over and over, I mean you have 80 posts but you got 200 likes! Annoying! Who’s the damn stupid who would dislike and like again! I might have the premium plan only to block these bloggers! I have a free plan and I don’t have many options except removing these bloggers, I don’t want you to follow me, please stop doing it! Stop following over and over! It’s sick.
The bloggers that flirt and they love you and want to marry you? Really? I’m not against flirting if it’s mutual, go ahead it’s normal but when it’s not, don’t be such a freak please, it’s not the Stone Age! Please don’t assume and decide what people like and love based on a blurred picture.
Some spammers just can’t stop, I usually block their comments but what I’m reading on other’s blogs is really nonsense and annoying… why would you keep such spammers? Spamming your posts and throwing their insecurities on you…And you’re okay with that? You’re free just asking why?
The blogger that likes your comments everywhere on other blogs or your blog without following you, and then they comment on your post and ask you to follow them, really? I’m not speaking about liking other’s comments because you like the way they think, totally cool but making it a habit and still you don’t follow the damn blog if you’re so impressed and loving the way this person thinks? I find it so hypocrite and insecure.
Imagine you wake up with the below notifications on your phone, or while you’re very busy your phone is raining notifications! Congratulations you pissed me off and I’m buying whatever plan it is just to block such bloggers and I will post about you so you think twice the next time you decide to be a damn spammer.
The non-readers that are obsessed about the number of followers and likes, they don’t give a shit about your content, they like your posts instantly before even reading and like the spammers mentioned above, they invade your blog with 20 or 30 likes and you were like: oh wow! The Flash is reading my blog 😁
The blogger that gives you a like on your valuable interaction. Sorry guys I must repeated this 100 times but remember the Arabic proverb? Well you can read about blogging mistakes and this is one of them, when someone respects you enough to really read and share their thoughts, giving them a like is a big insult, so now you know why people stop interacting with you. You get to give me a like on my comment only once dear. I have plenty of other things to read and do believe me!
The blogger that asks you to read their posts i.e. all their posts. Please don’t make it seem like a duty, it’s a choice I make because I respect you for stopping by many times and read many posts, when you ask it and force it, I retreat. And it’s different than recommending some posts every now and then to your fellow bloggers, totally different! This mentioned way is great because some new bloggers haven’t read your old posts and they might be related to something you’re discussing now, to not repeat yourself, you make reference to an old post, totally cool.
The blogger that keep posting very well-known quotes and referring them to their blog! You should give the credit to the person that said this quote, it’s so disrespectful.
The blogger that doesn’t check their spam and they still like your posts while many comments of you on their posts are neglected and awaiting moderation or just lying is SPAM folder. It’s really a kindergarten attitude. Respect the damn readers, I already raised this subject and I was as harsh as your behavior.
For the jealous bloggers, I’m really sorry for the waste of energy while each person is unique as fingerprints, my site name is: My Emotional Fingerprint because I believe each breath I take is unique! I’m sorry you think you’re not enough.
This is what I remember so far, so now you know what annoys me and if you feel offended, I’m sorry you do, you can unfollow my blog or stop visiting at all, I’m totally okay and I respect your decision. I’m a very direct and honest person and I do it my way, unless you show me a better way.
Thank you for reading, your thoughts are very welcome and if I missed someone’s comment ever, please do inform me, I check my SPAM everyday but still!
Except the comments I decided to send to the spam because of all the reasons I just stated.
Huguette Antoun – March 30th 2019